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Listen Up: Why ZIP IT Is the Skill Everyone Needs Now

Updated: May 21


Many of us feel pressure to speak up, react fast, and always have something to say. However, when we all talk at once, no one feels heard. Therefore, it’s important to build one of the most overlooked and undervalued skills in today’s workplace–listening.

 

Not just surface-level listening, we’re talking about focused, thoughtful, intentional listening. That’s where the ZIP IT method comes in.

 

What is ZIP IT?

 

ZIP IT stands for Zoom In Person Is Talking. It's a simple but powerful way to remind ourselves to pause and shift our full attention to the speaker. No matter if the conversation is routine or tense, this shift can help us stay present. The more we can build this habit, the more meaningful and productive our conversations become.

 

Why Listening is Challenging

 

You might think you’re already a good listener. However, real listening is surprisingly rare. Here are some reasons why:

 

  • Self-Awareness: Many people overestimate their listening skills. In one study, 94% of managers rated as poor listeners believed they were good or very good at it.

  • Self-Love: Talking about ourselves activates the brain’s reward system. People often choose it over money.

  • Twitter Brain: Constant exposure to short bursts of information shrinks our attention span.

  • Speech-Thought Gap: We think faster than people speak, so our minds wander easily.

  • Familiarity Fatigue: We tend to zone out more with those closest to us. Strangers may actually listen better.

  • Fear Factor: When we feel emotionally threatened, our brain shifts into defense mode and stops listening.

 

The Mindset Behind Good Listening

 

Real listening isn’t just hearing words. It’s using your entire presence, including ears, eyes, heart, and attention. The ancient Chinese character for “listen” (聽) reflects this. It covers parts that mean ear, eye, heart, and king.

 

Listening well means giving the speaker your full attention. There’s no multitasking, no thinking ahead to your response—just being fully present in the moment.

 

How ZIP IT Can Help

 

Saying “ZIP IT” to ourselves during a conversation is a quick way to return to the present moment. It reminds us to:

 

  • Stop planning our next point

  • Stay curious

  • Listen for tone, body language, and emotion

  • Focus on the entire message, not just the words

 

This method works especially well in tough conversations where emotions run high or stakes feel personal. It helps us stay steady, connected, and constructive.

 

Active Listening in Action

 

Great listeners like therapists and crisis negotiators don’t stay silent. They listen actively. That includes:

 

  • Repeating what they heard

  • Labeling the emotion

  • Asking if they got it right

  • Staying calm and engaged

 

These techniques work just as well in the office or at home as in high-pressure situations.

 

Listening Takes Practice

 

Like any skill, listening improves with repetition. Try it with your team during a meeting, with a friend over coffee, or even with your kid after school. Pick three moments a day to practice active listening. You’ll be surprised how quickly people open up when they feel truly heard.

 

How NextArrow Helps You Build Listening Skills That Stick

 

NextArrow helps leaders, teams, and individual contributors build lasting communication skills through workshops and leadership coaching. Our ZIP IT method is a broader approach that blends behavioral insights with real-world tools. No matter if you join a group workshop or work with us one-on-one, you’ll walk away with practical ways to improve focus, presence, and connection.

 

We also offer programs on courageous conversations, feedback, and emotional intelligence to help you communicate clearly. Want to lead better conversations at work and home? It starts with ZIP IT.


 
 
 

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